He spoke about this marriage and what he wants in his private conversations with Rabbi Shmuley (he wants a mirror-soul). I can't believe I send you there. Because in my opinion these were just private talks when preparing their book about family, and for sure such intimate talks IF they would have been for release as rabbi alleges, a lot of things would have been left aside or edited.
For me it sounds a little bit of entitlement to assert that if someone didn't love me...enough for example, he would not be capable of this with anyone.
MJ for sure it wasn't regular Joe to be confined in a marriage where instead of a partner he would have a chief wife. I don't like this either. I hate such attitude, if you have a paper that means that you own the person's life and soul..
Because he said to rabbi that he likes ,,classy and quiet ladies,,...LMP recognized in maybe Oprah 2010 can't remember right that they had fights for days in a row...thus MJ says a lot with such assertion. He spoke nicely about her but the ,,shade,, is there between the lines.
Marriage is like a beautiful partnership where you are there one for the other, building something together, a family, a project, and so on. In an ideal world. Where true intimacy comes not from being with another 24/7, but respecting each other's boundaries and loving the other as he/she is. Not trying to mold him/her into what you have in mind.